Provide a sense of security

“One way I have learnt to empower my children is to father in reaction to the way I was fathered. I remember clearly having my feelings squashed, being belittled and being shamed by my father. I felt it a lot. My heart goes out to kids who get shamed and belittled because I have vivid memories of it myself.” – Doug Aberle, engineer.

  • When you put down others you diminish them rather than building them up. Make your home a ‘no put down zone.’
  • Work to build a relationship with your child that makes them feel safe. Safe to share their thoughts and feelings with you. Safe to be who they are.
  • Consciously find ways to encourage and empower all children you encounter, not just your own.


Teaching children values

Don’t assume your children will learn the right values through TV, movies, magazines or their peers. Dads are powerful influencers, so model in your own life the values you want your children to learn.


Home cafeteria

Create a version of the food you get on site or while travelling with your children.